I searched for "Domestic Violence" on Twitter and was saddened to see this blog: http://tinyurl.com/merlqb
If it saddens you too, please send her a comment. I did so, but she hasn't permitted it to be posted yet. If you do choose to comment, help educate this young lady that DV is about Power & Control.
Being feminine and a feminist are not mutually exclusive. And being a feminist doesn't necessitate bashing men, women acting like men, or the extreme quotes she has cited in her blog (for example, that marriage is the equivalent of slavery for women, etc.). I know many men who consider themselves feminists. They are supportive of equality for women. That entails mutual respect between men & women, with neither being superior nor inferior to the other.